When You’ve Made a Hard Decision You Regret — What Comes Next?

Introduction

It’s rarely talked about publicly — but it’s something we hear privately, over and over again.

“I made a decision I regret… now what?”

Maybe it was hiring too quickly.
Maybe it was bending a rule because you felt backed into a corner.
Maybe it was something you didn’t even realise was wrong at the time.

This blog explores how to respond — with honesty, responsibility and a plan to move forward.

1. Mistakes Happen — But Patterns Can Be Broken

The first decision might’ve been a mistake. But the second? That’s often a choice.

Many providers stay quiet out of fear — and end up building more decisions on a shaky foundation.

Instead, hit pause.

Own what needs owning — and choose not to keep adding weight to a decision you wish you hadn’t made.

2. It’s Not Always as Bad as It Feels

One of the most common things we hear after a provider opens up about an issue is:
"That actually wasn’t as bad as I thought it would be."

When you bring something into the light:

• Solutions show up

• Context gets clearer

• You stop spiralling in shame

And most importantly — you get the chance to rebuild on something solid.

3. Start with the Foundation You Want to Build On

Ask yourself:

• What do I want my business to be known for?

• What values do I want leading my decisions?

• What example do I want to set for my team?

Then make one decision that aligns with that vision. Just one.

Conclusion

No one gets it perfect.

But what you do after a misstep says far more about your leadership than the misstep itself.

📩 If you want space to talk it through, you’re welcome to DM “RESET” or email [email protected] — confidential, no obligation. Just someone to think it through with.